PeaceFlow Counseling
Wenrui Li M.S., LPC, LMHC

About Me
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Texas, and a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) in Washington. I specialize in trauma recovery, deep emotional work, and long-term personal growth. My approach is rooted in evidence-based, transformative therapies, including EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), IFS (Internal Family Systems), and Somatic Therapy, to help you break free from past wounds and step into a more empowered, authentic life.
I work best with individuals who are highly introspective, emotionally attuned, and ready to engage in meaningful self-exploration and long-term change. Many of my clients are high-achieving professionals, creatives, immigrants, and LGBTQIA+ individuals, navigating deep-seated patterns of anxiety, perfectionism, relational struggles, or unresolved trauma.
If you are feeling stuck in emotional cycles, struggling with self-doubt, or yearning for more self-trust and inner peace, I am here to help.
🌟 My Approach | A Deeper Way to Heal
Healing isn't just about managing symptoms—it's about transforming how you relate to yourself and the world. My approach integrates:
✅ EMDR – Reprocess painful memories & release emotional burdens
✅ IFS (Internal Family Systems) – Understand and harmonize different parts of yourself
✅ Somatic Therapy – Regulate emotions through mind-body connection
✅ Attachment & Relational Healing – Build deeper self-trust and more fulfilling relationships
I believe that true healing happens when we go beyond intellectual insight and engage the mind, body, and nervous system in the process. Whether you are processing past trauma, navigating life transitions, or seeking a stronger sense of self, therapy with me is a collaborative journey toward lasting emotional freedom.
💎 Who I Work With
🔹 High-achievers & perfectionists who appear successful but feel emotionally exhausted inside
🔹 Highly sensitive individuals (HSPs) struggling with overwhelm, overthinking, or self-doubt
🔹 Immigrants & bicultural individuals navigating identity, belonging, and cultural expectations
🔹 LGBTQIA+ individuals exploring self-acceptance, relationships, or healing from discrimination
🔹 People recovering from complex trauma (C-PTSD, attachment wounds, childhood neglect)
🔹 Those seeking deep emotional work beyond surface-level coping strategies
If you resonate with this, therapy can be a powerful tool to break free from cycles of emotional pain and build a life of greater clarity, connection, and resilience.
📌 Why Work With Me?
✔ Depth & Insight: I specialize in complex emotional patterns and long-term transformation—not just symptom relief
✔ Holistic Healing: We integrate mind, body, and nervous system work for deep and lasting change
✔ Personal & Professional Experience: I understand trauma not just as a therapist, but through my own healing journey
✔ Safe & Culturally Attuned Space: I work with diverse populations, immigrants, and LGBTQIA+ clients, creating a space where you feel truly seen
Therapy isn't about "fixing" you—you are not broken. It's about understanding yourself on a deeper level, healing emotional wounds, and stepping into a life of greater self-trust and freedom.
📩 Let's Begin Your Journey. Contact me to schedule a consultation.
中文咨询
我目前在华盛顿州和德克萨斯州执业,持有从业执照为Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) 和 Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC)。我拥有多年临床经验,曾在精神病院、创伤康复中心、家暴和性侵幸存者支持机构以及退伍军人心理康复项目工作,为不同背景的个体提供深度心理支持。这些经历让我对复杂创伤、情绪调节、自我认同、跨文化适应等领域有着系统性的理解,并擅长帮助来访者找到真正的内在力量。
在我的咨询实践中,我结合了多种前沿的心理治疗方法,包括:
✔ EMDR(眼动脱敏再处理)—— 用于整合创伤记忆,解除深层心理困扰,让大脑重塑更健康的思维模式
✔ IFS(内部家庭系统)—— 帮助你理解和协调内在不同的情绪部分,建立更稳定的自我认同和心理韧性
✔ Somatic Therapy(身心疗愈)—— 通过身体觉察调节情绪,释放长期积累的压力和创伤记忆
我不仅接受了这些疗法的系统培训,并且自己也体验过它们的疗效,因此我深知单靠认知上的理解是不够的,真正的改变需要身心结合的体验。
🌟 我的专业领域
🔹 复杂创伤 & 童年经历影响
你的情绪模式、关系模式、职业发展是否受到过去经历的困扰?
你是否明知道某些行为模式不健康,却难以真正改变?
你是否长期处于焦虑、低自尊、情感内耗的循环中?
🔹 高敏感 & 高成就人群
你在别人眼里是成功的,但内心却长期有"不够好"的感觉?
你容易自我怀疑、过度思考,总是给自己设定极高的要求?
你渴望突破内在限制,获得真正的心理自由和内心稳定?
🔹 华人移民 & 跨文化适应
你在东西方文化之间找不到平衡,家庭关系复杂?
你希望找到属于自己的身份认同,而不是被传统或社会期待束缚?
🔹 LGBTQIA+ 族群
你希望在身份认同、情感、家庭关系中获得真正的理解和支持?
你在亲密关系中反复遇到类似的问题,不知道如何突破?
🔹 东亚文化中的女性成长经历
你从小被教导要"听话""懂事",但这让你难以表达真实的自己?
你希望培养 assertiveness(坚定自我),学会如何建立健康的边界,而不带有内疚感?
💎 咨询风格:深度洞察 + 情绪支持 + 身心结合
在我的咨询中,你将体验到的不只是倾诉,而是一次真正的内在探索和转变。
✅ 不仅仅是谈话,而是通过身心结合的方法,学会如何真正释放压力 & 处理情绪
✅ 不仅仅是理解创伤,而是用 EMDR & IFS 让你的大脑和内心真正整合这些体验
✅ 不仅仅是"情绪支持",而是帮你培养长期的心理韧性和稳定感
心理咨询不只是短暂的情绪疏导,而是一场深入的自我成长。如果你想要的不只是"好过一点",而是真正摆脱长期的内在困境,建立更稳定的内在力量,欢迎和我聊聊。
FAQ
✔ High-achievers & perfectionists – Struggling with self-doubt, burnout, or a constant need to prove themselves
✔ Highly sensitive individuals (HSPs) – Overwhelmed by emotions, easily affected by others' energy, and prone to anxiety
✔ Immigrants & bicultural individuals – Navigating cultural identity, belonging, and family expectations
✔ LGBTQIA+ individuals – Seeking self-acceptance, healing from discrimination, or improving relationships
✔ Trauma survivors – Healing from childhood wounds, relational trauma, or chronic stress
✔ People seeking deep emotional work – Beyond just symptom relief, looking for lasting transformation
If you resonate with any of these, therapy can help you gain clarity, strengthen self-trust, and create a life that feels authentic and fulfilling.
✔ Client-centered & trauma-informed – You are the expert on your life, and I provide tools to help you access your inner wisdom
✔ Integrative & evidence-based – I combine EMDR, IFS, and Somatic Therapy to tailor the best approach for you
✔ Non-judgmental & culturally attuned – I understand the complexities of identity, cultural expectations, and societal pressures
✔ Practical & transformative – Therapy isn't just about talking; I provide actionable tools to help you apply insights in daily life
I believe that true healing happens when we move beyond intellectual insight and engage both the mind and body in the process.
🔹 Phase 1: Awareness & Stabilization – Identifying emotional patterns, developing coping strategies, and establishing a foundation of safety
🔹 Phase 2: Deep Processing & Healing – Using EMDR, IFS, and Somatic Therapy to reprocess trauma, release emotional burdens, and reshape self-beliefs
🔹 Phase 3: Integration & Growth – Strengthening emotional resilience, building healthier relationships, and sustaining long-term transformation
There is no set timeline for healing—we go at your pace, focusing on what feels most relevant and meaningful for you.
Benefits of virtual counseling:
✔ Convenience & accessibility – Attend therapy from the comfort of your home, without commuting
✔ Greater emotional safety – Being in your own environment can help you feel more comfortable opening up
✔ Continuity & flexibility – Easier scheduling and no geographical limitations
✔ Same therapeutic benefits – EMDR, IFS, and Somatic Therapy techniques are fully adaptable to online sessions
Many clients find that virtual therapy allows them to be more present and engaged, making it a powerful and effective option.
If you're dealing with acute distress, trauma processing, or major life changes, weekly sessions will likely be most beneficial in the beginning. For long-term self-growth and maintenance, biweekly or monthly check-ins can help sustain progress.
✔ Short-term therapy (6–12 sessions) – Focused on specific issues like stress, decision-making, or life transitions
✔ Medium-term therapy (3–6 months) – Healing trauma, improving relationships, or building emotional resilience
✔ Long-term therapy (6+ months to ongoing) – Deep self-exploration, identity work, attachment healing, and lasting transformation
Therapy is not just about symptom relief—it's about creating lasting, meaningful change in how you experience yourself and the world.
🔹 Talk about what brought you to therapy and what you hope to achieve
🔹 Discuss your emotional experiences, past challenges, and current goals
🔹 Explore how therapy can best support you and answer any questions you may have
You don't need to prepare anything in advance—just bring yourself, your thoughts, and an open mind.
✅ Complete confidentiality – Insurance requires a diagnosis, which becomes part of your medical record
✅ Greater flexibility – No restrictions on the length of treatment or session frequency
✅ Personalized, in-depth care – Insurance often limits the types of therapy covered
If you have out-of-network benefits, I can provide superbills for potential reimbursement. I encourage you to check with your insurance provider to see what they may cover.
💡 Private Pay Rates:
🕒 50-minute Individual Session – $150 per session
🕒 50-minute Couples Session – $180 per session
Why invest in private-pay therapy?
✔ No insurance restrictions – You decide how long and how often you want therapy
✔ Tailored to your needs – No standardized treatment plans dictated by insurance
✔ Comprehensive, deep work – More flexibility to explore issues at a meaningful pace
I understand therapy is a financial commitment, and I offer a limited number of sliding scale spots to make it more accessible. Feel free to reach out if you'd like to discuss options.
📅 Schedule an appointment
If it's your first time, I recommend scheduling a free 15-minute consultation to see if we're a good fit.
✔ 高成就 & 完美主义者——外表光鲜、事业成功,但内心长期焦虑、压力大、容易自我怀疑
✔ 高敏感人群(HSPs)——情绪细腻,容易受环境影响,常常陷入深度思考或感到过度消耗
✔ 移民 & 跨文化人士——面对身份认同、家庭关系、文化适应等挑战,希望找到平衡
✔ LGBTQIA+ 群体——希望探索自我认同、改善亲密关系,或疗愈因社会压力带来的伤害
✔ 创伤经历者——曾经历童年创伤、亲密关系伤害、长期压力或情感忽视,希望走出阴影
✔ 寻求深度心理成长的人——不仅仅想缓解表面症状,而是希望真正理解自己,找到内在的稳定和力量
如果你在这些描述中看到了自己,心理咨询可以帮助你增强自我觉察,改善情绪模式,打破困境,让你活得更自在、更清晰、更有掌控感。
✔ 以你为中心 & 创伤知情——你对自己最了解,我的任务是帮助你更好地理解、关怀自己
✔ 结合科学有效的方法——整合 EMDR(眼动脱敏)、IFS(内部家庭系统)、Somatic Therapy(躯体疗法),让情绪调节更有针对性
✔ 尊重文化背景 & 个人经历——无论你的成长环境、身份认同、社会压力如何,我都会在你的语境里理解你
✔ 不仅仅是倾诉,更是深入的成长——咨询不仅是"被听见",而是找到实际的方法,让自己真正变得更有力量
心理咨询不仅是"聊一聊",更是一次有方向、有支持的内在探索,让你找到更自在、更稳固的自己
🔹 阶段 1:觉察与稳定——识别情绪模式,了解困扰的根源,学习有效的调节方法,让自己在情绪上变得更稳定
🔹 阶段 2:深入探索与疗愈——通过 EMDR、IFS、Somatic Therapy,帮助你处理过去的创伤、改善内在对话、释放长期积压的情绪
🔹 阶段 3:整合与成长——建立新的情绪模式,强化自信,改善人际关系,让咨询带来的改变真正融入你的生活
每个人的节奏不同,你不需要一下子把所有问题都解决,我们会一起找到适合你的步调,让疗愈成为一个自然发生的过程。
线上咨询的优势:
✔ 更灵活便捷——不需要通勤,可以在自己熟悉的环境里进行咨询
✔ 更放松,更容易深入——很多来访者觉得,在自己舒适的空间里,更容易进入情绪状态
✔ 不中断疗愈进程——无论是出差、旅行还是搬家,都可以持续获得心理支持
✔ 适用于大多数疗法——EMDR、IFS 和 Somatic Therapy 都可以很好地在线上进行
如果你对线上咨询有顾虑,我们可以先进行一次免费 15 分钟的咨询,看看是否适合你。
✔ 短期咨询(6–12 次)——适用于具体的问题,比如职场压力、情绪调节、决策困扰
✔ 中期咨询(3–6 个月)——适用于创伤疗愈、关系改善、自信建立等深度议题
✔ 长期咨询(6 个月以上)——适用于自我探索、身份认同、长期情绪模式调整
心理咨询不仅是缓解一时的情绪困扰,更是帮助你建立长期稳定的内在支持系统,让你能更好地面对未来的挑战。
许多来访者选择自费咨询(Private Pay),因为它提供了更多自由度和更深入的支持:
✅ 更强的隐私保护——保险报销通常需要提供心理诊断,并可能记录在医疗系统中,而自费咨询完全保密
✅ 更自由的咨询节奏——不受保险公司限制,你可以根据自己的需求决定咨询频率和疗程长短
✅ 个性化、深度支持——保险往往只覆盖基础心理咨询,而自费咨询可以更聚焦于创伤修复、长期成长和深入的自我探索
如果你的保险提供 Out-of-Network 报销,我可以提供 Superbill 供你申请报销,具体报销比例需与你的保险公司确认。
💡 咨询费用:
🕒 50分钟个人咨询 – $150 每次
🕒 50分钟伴侣咨询 – $180 每次
为什么许多来访选择自费咨询?
✔ 不受保险限制——你可以自主决定咨询的方向和节奏,无需担心疗程受限
✔ 更深入的支持——不仅仅是缓解情绪,而是帮助你建立更稳定的内在力量和健康的关系模式
✔ 更高的隐私性——不涉及医疗记录,确保你的个人信息得到保护
我理解心理咨询对很多人来说是一个重要的决定,因此提供部分滑动收费名额,如有需要,欢迎与我联系讨论适合你的方案。